📣📣Do your kids fell pressure to be a “success” in life? Would you cheat for your kids’ success?
- Christal Marshall
- Mar 18
- 2 min read
Today, I want to dive into some thoughts inspired by the novel "Admission," which got me reflecting on the crazy pressures surrounding education and success.
See “Admission” from Julie Bauxbum here in Amazon: https://amzn.to/3RfLaW9
This book responds to the 2019 Varsity Blues scandal, where numerous celebrities and their children faced legal consequences for cheating on SAT and ACT tests.
It’s shocking to think about how some parents felt their kids needed to be at the top of their game, or they’d feel ashamed.
As a homeschool mom, I often ponder this very issue—how do I ensure my kids thrive without succumbing to these pressures?
The truth is, I want my children to succeed, but never at the cost of their integrity or happiness.
I was recently asked on TikTok how my homeschooled kids could be successful, as if homeschooling somehow limits their potential.
But guess what? Research shows that thousands of test scores are flagged each year for suspicious activity, highlighting that the pressure to perform is still alive and well.
See the numbers here: https://blog.prepscholar.com/sat-act-cheating-accused-what-to-do#:~:text=The%20College%20Board%20and%20ACT%20don't%20discuss%20this%20publicly,and%20What%20You%20Can%20Do
I want my kids to feel free to explore their passions and interests without the looming weight of societal expectations. The goal of our homeschooling journey is not just academic success, but to cultivate creativity, confidence, and a sense of security.
In today’s world, there’s often a misconception that the only path to success is through traditional education—going to a top-tier school, earning a prestigious degree, and landing a high-paying job.
But my husband and I are living proof that there are countless ways to carve out a fulfilling life. We’re college-educated, yet we’ve built our businesses through creativity and self-teaching, proving that success is not one-size-fits-all.
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As our kids approach middle and high school, the pressure can become overwhelming. Friends may be weighing college options and striving for perfect grades. It’s important to remind them that success can look different for everyone.
Whether they choose to attend college, launch a business, or pursue trades, what matters most is that they feel supported and loved in whatever path they choose.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic! How do you handle academic pressures within your family? Let’s share ideas and support one another.
Feel free to check out more resources on homeschooling at www.thefunschoolers.com. Together, we can create a nurturing environment where our kids can truly thrive!
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